“There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called in one hope of your calling;”
It’s not to go by what you think, feel, or want, but by what the word has to say.
One Lord - don’t go by who you think God is. The Bible says Who he is. He is the morning star.
One faith - believe Jesus and His promises and stop going by your feelings that can change by the second.
One baptism - stop going by what you want. Live the way the Bible says how we should live life. Love and live the baptism of Christ.
This will foster great success.