“Let your speech at all times be gracious and pleasant, seasoned with salt, so that you will know how to answer each one [who questions you].”
You were born for a purpose; to teach, admonish, nourish and love. Everyone is different and has to be individually loved. It's dangerous to treat everyone the same and not discern their spiritual or physical condition. It's important that we pray for the wisdom of God and the understanding of the Holy Spirit to teach each other in Christ. Pray for wisdom and understanding in order to be more effective for Jesus and make this world a better place.